8 Things Liz & Lisa didn’t know about…Julie Metz

by Liz

We love memoirs over here at Chick Lit is not Dead,  especially the ones that read like good fiction.  You know, when you have to keep stopping and reminding yourself that these things ACTUALLY HAPPENED to the author!

When Liz picked up Perfection: A Memoir of Betrayal and Renewal by Julie Metz in Target a few weeks ago, she was immediately drawn to Julie’s amazing story. Because let’s face it ladies-there’s a part of us that loves to read about other people’s dirty laundry!

Julie’s life changed forever when her husband collapsed in her kitchen and died in her arms, leaving her a single mother in a small town.  But that was only the beginning-she soon began to find out that he had hidden another life from her.  Her narrative is honest and insightful, her storytelling pitch perfect.  And as we did many times, you’ll wonder what the hell you’d do if it had happened to you. You’ll cheer for Julie as she begins to pick up the pieces of her broken life and rebuild.

But don’t just take out word for it-Perfection quickly became a NYT bestseller upon it’s release. AND Oprah thought Julie’s story was so compelling that she invited her to be a guest!  In fact, Julie’s episode is re-airing this Friday, July 30th.  Make sure to set your Tivo! Or you can find it here.

And we’re so lucky that she’s sharing not five, but EIGHT things we didn’t know about her.  And we were excited to discover that, like us, she has more books than she knows what to do with.  And wait until you find out at what age she got her drivers license!

We also have three SIGNED copies to give away to our fabulouso readers. You know what to do-just leave a comment and we’ll select the winners randomly this Friday evening.

CHICK LIT IS NOT DEAD PRESENTS: 8 THINGS LIZ & LISA DIDN’T KNOW ABOUT…JULIE METZ

1. I move houses more than I’d like…and every time I do…like now…I wish I didn’t own quite so many books. But once they are unpacked it’s like seeing old friends again.

2. I never really had a granny, but my old kitty Sweetie Pie kind of takes her place. She’s a bit dottery but absolutely lovable, and still likes to show up for meals, ours most of all and always has something to say.

3. A lot of readers ask me when someone will make Perfection into a movie…the answer is, soon. I just sold the film option, so stay tuned!

4. I like telling my daughter a story about college, how we stole tea trays from the dorm kitchen one winter evening, and went sledding. Some apricot brandy was involved.

5. As a young woman I loved traveling alone and was surprisingly fearless. I still remember so many of the people I met on European trains and the chocolate covered cookies we shared—cheap and filling.

6. I finally quit smoking at 34…it took at least ten tries.

7. I learned to drive late, at 27. I have been to a hypnotist on two occasions hoping to overcome my fear of city driving.

8. I have a bit of a green thumb that always surprises me. I think it’s because I talk to the plants. My mom always said it worked, so I have continued the tradition.

Thanks Julie! xoxo, Liz & Lisa

To read more about Julie, head on over to her Facebook page or find her on Twitter.

Lisa July 29, 2010 at 6:22 am

Sounds very intriguing…..hope I win! I’ll be tuning in to Oprah later today to check it out more!!

keri warehime July 29, 2010 at 6:28 am

Love finding new books to read, Thanks!!

Addie July 29, 2010 at 6:32 am

Sounds inspiring , cant wait to see Juile talk about her story on Oprah!

Tiffany July 29, 2010 at 6:33 am

Will definitely be watching Oprah. This is on my must-read list, please count me in. I would love to win a copy :)

Jonita July 29, 2010 at 6:33 am

I have a thing for memoirs already, and a memoir that kind of reads like fiction? I’m sold!

lisa July 29, 2010 at 6:46 am

Sounds like a very intriguing book – I’d love to win it!

LeDawn July 29, 2010 at 7:01 am

Oprah and a movie option – nice!!

ella July 29, 2010 at 7:02 am

def would love to have this book..ohh i can see my mount tbr piling up and the look on my husband’s eyes

Rachel July 29, 2010 at 7:03 am

I’ve been dying to read this for awhile. It’s one of those that I keep meaning to buy, but just never have. Would love to win this :)

Stephanie July 29, 2010 at 7:09 am

Wow. Just, wow. This sounds like a must read story. So tragic that it is inspirational without even trying.

Liz July 29, 2010 at 7:10 am

Lisa, it’s really good! And her Oprah episode air tomorrow-so don’t forget! xo

Liz July 29, 2010 at 7:10 am

Hi Keri, thanks for the comment!

Liz July 29, 2010 at 7:10 am

Addie, I know, me too!

Liz July 29, 2010 at 7:11 am

Tiffany, me too! I need to set my Tivo!

Liz July 29, 2010 at 7:11 am

Jonita, it really does! I kept reminding myself it wasn’t!

Liz July 29, 2010 at 7:11 am

Lisa, good luck!

Liz July 29, 2010 at 7:12 am

LeDawn, I know, right?

Liz July 29, 2010 at 7:12 am

Ella, tell me about it! In the same boat over here!

Kelly H July 29, 2010 at 7:13 am

Great book!

Liz July 29, 2010 at 7:13 am

Stephanie, exactly! Thanks for the comment!

Kimmi July 29, 2010 at 7:27 am

Wow – now this is someone with a story of strength. And a fellow cat lover to boot!

mstamper July 29, 2010 at 7:30 am

DVR is set! Sounds like a great book.

Leah B July 29, 2010 at 7:36 am

I have been reading a ton of memoirs lately – I love reading about people’s lives – and this one keeps popping up as a must read. I would love to win a copy!

Jennifer A. July 29, 2010 at 7:36 am

I am always amazed at how people handle tragedy…this sounds like a must read! Thanks!!!

Liz July 29, 2010 at 7:48 am

Kelly, I know,right? So good!

Liz July 29, 2010 at 7:49 am

Kimmi, I agree!

Liz July 29, 2010 at 7:49 am

mstamper, It really is! Thanks for the comment!

Liz July 29, 2010 at 7:49 am

Leah, you will love it! Thanks for the comment!

Liz July 29, 2010 at 7:50 am

Jennifer A, me too. Sometimes fact is stranger than fiction!

Liz July 29, 2010 at 7:51 am

Rachel, good luck! xo

JenP July 29, 2010 at 7:53 am

Sounds intriguing!

Chasity Blackwell July 29, 2010 at 7:59 am

Oh this book has been on my wishlist for awhile! Can’t wait to read it and hope to win it!! Thanks girls!

Jen R July 29, 2010 at 8:03 am

Sounds good! I haven’t read a good memior in a while, and this one sounds great!!

Melissa A July 29, 2010 at 8:30 am

She sounds like an amazing woman. I’d love to read her book.
Thanks!

Jean Shen July 29, 2010 at 8:33 am

Reading this blurb makes me want to read this book! Another book added to the “to-read” list!

kate July 29, 2010 at 8:39 am

Love that the book is already being turn into a movie! It must be fantastic.

Stephanie S. July 29, 2010 at 8:44 am

I saw her on Oprah when it first aired. What a horrible thing to happen! Can’t wait to hear more about her story!

Nina July 29, 2010 at 8:56 am

I am intrigued and would love to win & read this book! Memoirs intrigue me anyway!

Tenna July 29, 2010 at 9:09 am

You guys find the most intriguing books. I’m so glad I found this website as it’s now become part of my morning routine!

R0byn Lenssen July 29, 2010 at 9:30 am

i love to read how different people deal with things in their lives…would like to hear how she came through such a situation. pick me to win this book!

MaNiC MoMMy July 29, 2010 at 9:35 am

Love this review and probably will watch the Oprah dealio online since I can’t wait till tomorrow!!!! You gals always have the best stuff on chicklitisnotdead! Thanks!

Angie July 29, 2010 at 9:39 am

Can’t wait to read it–just added it to my list. I’m always amazed when someone can lead a double life secretly. That must be an exhausting feat.

Jenn B July 29, 2010 at 9:40 am

I will definatly be tivoing Oprah tomorrow! I have heard about the book and been dying to read it! Would definatly love to win it!

BBBG July 29, 2010 at 9:46 am

I’ve been wanting to read this book! I would love to win a copy – but more importantly it reminded me that it’s on my list and I’ll have to pick it up soon. :-)

Sarah July 29, 2010 at 9:52 am

This sounds really good. I love finding good reads at Target!

Casey Brooks July 29, 2010 at 10:36 am

Excited to have a new book to take on vacation

Susan Parham July 29, 2010 at 10:36 am

This looks soooo good! I will definitely be DVR’ing Oprah and keeping an eye out for the movie also! NICE!!!

Mary July 29, 2010 at 10:39 am

My DVR is set ! The book sounds like a real page turner. Can’t wait to read it.

Melissa July 29, 2010 at 11:19 am

This sounds intriguing. Can’t wait to read it!

Colleen July 29, 2010 at 11:33 am

Wow, sounds like she’s been through a lot. Good for Julie coming through it and landing on Oprah.

jennifer orozco July 29, 2010 at 11:49 am

wow– reminds me of “my husband’s sweethearts.” i love the kind of books that remind us that we can put our lives back together no matter what.

Kourtney July 29, 2010 at 12:46 pm

I learned to drive at 22 – but that was because I never had money for a car, so I thought “why bother?”

Adding this book to my TBR pile!! Can’t wait to check it out!

Liz July 29, 2010 at 12:47 pm

JenP, it is! xo

Liz July 29, 2010 at 12:47 pm

Chasity, you’ll love it!

Liz July 29, 2010 at 12:48 pm

Jen R, it’s really good, a page turner for sure!

Liz July 29, 2010 at 12:48 pm

Melissa, Good luck!

Liz July 29, 2010 at 12:48 pm

Jean, I know, a blurb is worth a thousand words, right?

Liz July 29, 2010 at 12:49 pm

Kate, I think it will make a great movie!

Liz July 29, 2010 at 12:50 pm

Stepahnie, I can’t wait to see the Oprah!

Liz July 29, 2010 at 12:50 pm

Nina, me too! I love them!

Liz July 29, 2010 at 12:51 pm

Tenna, we’re so happy you found us!! xoxo

Liz July 29, 2010 at 12:51 pm

Robyn, Good luck!

Liz July 29, 2010 at 12:52 pm

Steph, you’re so sweet! Big kisses and hugs to you! xo

Liz July 29, 2010 at 12:52 pm

Angie, seriously! I barely have time for my own life!

Liz July 29, 2010 at 12:53 pm

Jenn B, Good luck to you!

Liz July 29, 2010 at 12:53 pm

BBBG, It’s worth waiting for, I loved it!

Liz July 29, 2010 at 12:54 pm

Sarah, I know, I can never resist the book section at Target!

Liz July 29, 2010 at 12:54 pm

Casey, this would be a perfect vacay read!

Liz July 29, 2010 at 12:54 pm

Susan, It is soooo good- you will love it!

Liz July 29, 2010 at 12:55 pm

Mary, you’ll love it! xo

Liz July 29, 2010 at 12:55 pm

Melissa, you won’t be able to put it down!

Liz July 29, 2010 at 12:56 pm

Colleen, Totally! Oprah is bigtime.

Liz July 29, 2010 at 12:57 pm

Jennifer O, I agree, I think that’s one of the reasons I loved PERFECTION so much.

Tara Wilson July 29, 2010 at 2:12 pm

Thank you for sharing! I hadn’t heard about Julie or her book. I’ll be sure to listen to the rebroadcast of Oprah on my drive home, thank goodness for Oprah radio!!

karenk July 29, 2010 at 2:45 pm

a fabulous posting…
thanks for the chance to read this book…
:)

Rebecca F July 29, 2010 at 3:42 pm

Sounds like the just the book I’ve been looking for. I love memoirs (no matter how crazy my friends think it is!)
So happy I have found this site

Karen Knox July 29, 2010 at 4:03 pm

Are beauty and writing ability somehow linked? All the authors you feature are gorgeous! Not fair! Oh well, I can walk and chew gum at the same time, so who am I to complain? ( – :

Her book sounds intriguing. I’m ready to read some chick lit that is in that vein. Thank for introducing another great author. Would someone please donate some of their vacation time so that I can whole up somewhere on the beach and read all of these books? ( – :

Elaine July 29, 2010 at 5:31 pm

I want to read this one!

Rickie July 29, 2010 at 8:30 pm

I too will add this book to my list. It sounds fascinating – and I want to read it before the movie comes out.

Liz July 29, 2010 at 8:53 pm

Oprah radio? So cool! xo

Liz July 29, 2010 at 8:54 pm

Karenk, Good luck! xo

Liz July 29, 2010 at 8:55 pm

Rebecca F, We’re so glad you’re here! =)

Liz July 29, 2010 at 8:58 pm

Kren, I know, right? I have so many books on my tbr list that it’s ridiculous. And I know, they are all so pretty!

Liz July 29, 2010 at 8:59 pm

Elaine, you’ll love it!

Liz July 29, 2010 at 8:59 pm

Rickie, thanks for the comment! xo

Katherine July 30, 2010 at 12:58 am

I can’t wait to read the book. Memoirs tend to hit closest to home. I cherish one’s ability to share such personal stories. I, too, after many failed attempts, have quit smoking (at the age of 37).

Sarah Green July 30, 2010 at 6:09 am

Thanks for sharing. My read pile is seriously becoming huge… I can’t keep up!! Anyhow, Julie’s book looks awesome. I too have a fear of city driving, which is why i live in the middle of nowhere and am afraid to move!!

I’d love to win this book… and if i don’t- it will be a great excuse to make yet another trip to target.

Deb July 30, 2010 at 7:14 am

This book was already on my wish list, so glad to see you guys spotlight it! Thanks for an awesome site!

Colleen Turner July 30, 2010 at 7:49 am

This book sounds wonderful! My mom actually didn’t learn to drive until she was in her twenties either. She lived in Miami and was scared to learn, so with the reliable public transportation she just didn’t learn until she got married and moved to a more suburban community. I think it really isn’t a necessary skill to have if you live in a large city, but good to know either way :).

Sarah July 30, 2010 at 8:18 am

This sounds like a fab! Thanks for the chance to read it:)

Lauren July 30, 2010 at 8:57 am

I love memoirs that “read like good fiction”. This one is definitely now on my list!

Sharyn July 30, 2010 at 10:39 am

I love finding out I have something in common with someone “famous” I also had a huge fear of driving and living in N.Y.C. I really didn’t have to – but when I was 28 my husband and I moved to San Diego and I had to just get over my fear of driving – there is on other way to get around here. Glad to know it takes other people just as long to things that come so easily and naturally to other people.
This book like really interesting I would love to have the opportunity to read it.

Marianne July 30, 2010 at 11:57 am

I already have this book on my kindle wish list. I am looking forward to reading it.I would welcome a signed copy ANY DAY!!!!

Kat Stover July 30, 2010 at 1:12 pm

This one sounds really good! Hope I win!

jessica July 30, 2010 at 2:20 pm

definately going to add to my summer reading list! thanks for giving us the chance to win!!

Liz July 30, 2010 at 6:41 pm

Congrats to the three winner of Julie Metz’s PERFECTION! (rebfost@msn.com, pita428@msn.com & tenna.rasmussen@gmail.com) And a huge thank you to everyone who commented! xoxo, L&L

Liz July 30, 2010 at 6:59 pm

Just found your blog! Love it! Hoping to win this great book. Thx.

Rebecca F July 30, 2010 at 7:15 pm

So happy to be here !
can’t wait to dive into this one.
Thanks so much !!!

Sarah Coppola July 30, 2010 at 8:18 pm

Just joined your blog, via Sarah Green
Cant wait to start reading your books!

Jenn Bunk July 31, 2010 at 8:38 am

Thank you so much!! I absolutly LOVE your website! Can’t wait to start this book!

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