We love us some Robert Rave. And not just because he’s cute! (Although he is very cute!) But because he’s hilarious, writes sassy books and loves his mother!
Awwww….
On that note, his latest memoir Conversations and Cosmopolitans: Awkward Moments, Mixed Drinks and How a Mother and Son Shared Who They Really Are is co-written by mama Rave (Jane). How sweet is that?
Here’s the skinny on Conversations and Cosmopolitans: After moving from the Midwest to New York City at the age of twenty-one, Robert Rave finally found the resolve to mail a letter to his parents informing them that he was gay. Once Robert was “out,” both he and his mother Jane felt a newfound freedom to be more honest with each other. From the discrimination Jane experienced as a pregnant teenager in a small town, to Robert’s “manscaping,” almost no topic was off-limits in their conversations. Soon, Robert was creating a “gay glossary” so that Jane could understand the lexicon and Jane was giving Robert the same dating advice that she used to give Robert’s older sister (“men are jerks”).
Sounds like a must-read memoir, right? Well, it could be yours! And you know the drill! Leave a comment and be entered to win one of FIVE copies! We’ll randomly select the winners on Sunday, November 27th after 6PM PST.
CHICK LIT IS NOT DEAD PRESENTS…ROBERT RAVES’ 5 LOVES AND A DUD:
1. HGTV. Yeah, I realize this might not be groundbreaking or even remotely sexy. However, I love this network. It’s aspirational, it’s escapism, it’s everything. From “Income Property” to “Design Star” and yes, the anchor of the channel and my favorite—“House Hunters.” (It goes without saying that “House Hunters International” falls under that same umbrella.) It pretty much is the only channel that I leave on constantly. Although, “Extreme Couponing” on TLC is so riveting and truth be told makes me panic when they’re standing in the checkout line. I also don’t find it a coincidence that “Hoarding: Buried Alive” is on the same network.
2. Jenna Lyons—Creative Director for J Crew. I loved J Crew back in the early nineties, but then when I moved out of the Midwest my love affair with the clothing company ended. When Jenna Lyons came on board (and also Andy Spade) they took the brand to an entirely new level. I know basically the world at large loves her, particularly the female demographic, but I have to speak up for the guys and also profess my love and loyalty to her. There’s really something for every guy in the J Crew men’s store.
3. Capri Blue Jar Candle. I have two French Bulldogs and let’s just say they have very sensitive stomachs. Also, I’m presently single. Therefore, should I ever want to change my relationship status on Facebook again, I need to keep these candles burning constantly. They smell that good. I’ve only ever seen these sold at Anthropologie, but you might be able to buy them elsewhere. I don’t know, Google it.
4. Frank Sinatra. I’m really late to the party on this one, I know. Maybe it’s because I’m thirty-seven and it took me a minute to wise-up, but now I’m hooked. He’s really great for every occasion: lazy Sunday afternoon, the holidays, an intimate dinner, or my personal favorite—drinking wine!
5. Pinterest.com. It’s basically an online pinboard, or inspiration board, and as well as a vision board (what’s up The Secret?). I love finding new things online and what inspires other people—this website is all of that and more. I’ve really made some awesome discoveries on there: stores, photos, and interior design ideas to name a few.
DUD
People who create Facebook profiles for their pets…And then friend request me. I’m not lying, this has happened to me on several occasions. I love my dogs. In fact, they’re the closest thing that I have to children at the moment. However, the most social networking they can and should have is humping my neighbor’s dog.
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Had no idea Pinterest was like an online inspiration board (OR vision board, love the Secret reference!) and I may have to give it a shot!! Looking forward to checking out the gay glossary and everything else this book has to offer!
Oh, Pinterest. It’s the devil.
And amen to the thing about the Facebook pages for pets.
I’m with you on the “House Hunters” love. I absolutely love that show!
hilarious dud!
One word: funnnny!!
Haaaaa!!! love it, sounds like a fantastic book!! Hope I win it!
LOVE LOVE LOVE Robert Rave!
I really like memoirs so this would be great to to read! Who wouldn’t want to after one look at the cover? I love it!
Margaret
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I absolutely love the idea for this Conversations & Cosmopolitans. As I grow older I am also opening up to my Ma more and in turn I am enjoying getting to know her as an adult. It’s such fun!
And House Hunters is strangely addictive. I don’t intend on buying any time soon, but this show makes me want to settle down and set up house! Great loves & a spectacular dud :)
I’m doing this AGAIN! I can’t believe I’ve been out of the book loop for a while and haven’t been privy to these cool latest books you guys are posting. I’m losing my book review cool. Hahahha. This one sounds great. i esp love his FB Pet Friend. I once got one from one and accidentally accepted it. HATE THAT ONE. Maybe I’ll win another book — two for two! xo
I would love to win this book!
I never listened to Frank Sinatra until I met my husband. Great post.
Sounds like a great read. We have so much in common.
love number 4!! So right about frank and a glass of wine. His dud is hilariously true.
Love the titles I discover on this site! This one looks especially promising.
What a terrific idea for a book. Even if I don’t win it I’ll totally get it at the library! Thanks for the review.
love the dud!!
Hmm, I know a few of those pet profile people on Facebook! LOL
Thanks for featuring this book for the tour!
Haha! My sister and I were just talking about people who make Facebook pages for their pets and small children! What the heck?
It also weirds me out when people make Facebook pages for their infant.
Love the interview ladies I can’t stand either when people on Facebook create pages for their dogs. Did you know that Chunk, Chelsea Handler’s dog, has his own Twitter handle? Come on people! I don’t care if you are a famous person, like Chelsea or not. It’s just plain old silly and pointless. I’m not meaning to come across harsh here, so please don’t take it that way.
My dad actually introduced me to all of the HGTV house shows. My favorite is House Hunters International…I love getting to travel (with the show lol) and see homes all over the world.
Congrats to Princess543@xxx.com, laurajanepepper@xxx.com, kendall.suhr@xxx.com, shannonmcewen@xxx.com, marepasky@xxx.net! they’ve each won a copy of CONVERSATIONS AND COSMOPOLITANS! Thanks to all who entered! xoxo, L&L
Not a huge chick.lit fan but half of my book club are huge fans!! Great gifts!!!